Category Archives: Wise Advice

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF BEING SINGLE

Have you ever been at a party where it seemed you were surrounded only by couples and their children while you sat alone wondering when it would be your turn to find Mr. Right?  Well, stop wasting time wondering, and instead, appreciate single life as a beautiful calling, whether it be only for a brief moment or for a lifetime. The beauty in God’s church body is found in the diverse jobs He bestows upon each of us.  Each position has its own benefits and its challenges.  Our job is to simply harness our current position and live it out to the fullest in God’s ways.  As our brother Paul affirmed to us, there is definitely an advantage to being single, as you have a greater ability to stay focused on pleasing our Father and doing His work, “For I would that all men were...

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RESERVE JUDGMENT

 It is so easy to point out what other people are doing wrong, but what about worrying about what you do wrong? We are always quick to point out others mistakes and never focus on what we are doing. Each and every one of us is an example to someone else. Whether you know it or not someone is always watching what you do, say, or wear. We are quick to say behind a sister’s back that her skirt/dress is too short, that her top is too revealing, or her outfit is see-through. If you looked down you might find that maybe your skirt/dress is too short or too tight, or your top is too revealing or your outfit is actually see through! Maybe it’s not her outfit, you just don’t like how she speaks to brother’s, you feel she is too flirtatious. If you...

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HE CAN’T THINK LIKE A WOMAN, NOR CAN YOU THINK LIKE A MAN

You go to use the bathroom right after your husband and you get so mad because he didn’t put on a new roll of toilet paper when it ran out.  You see hubby walk right passed a sock on the floor that he didn’t even bother to pick up and put in the dirty clothes hamper.  You are planning a summer vacation and when you talk to hubby about it, his reaction was not exactly enthusiastic.  Yes, all these are trivial matters in the grand scheme of things, but have the power to incite BIG MARITAL WARS. “Your glorying is not good, Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?”  I Corinthians 5:6 On the surface it may seem like our husbands don’t think or worry about the things we do, almost like they don’t care.  But guess what, they actually feel the same...

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